On Saturday two of my Tianjin friends 'tied the knot!' (So funny, I look at that idiom in a whole new light now that I've taught it and "head over heels" to my students...) I digress, back to the topic! Kristi and Zhou Jun celebrated their marriage this past weekend and I wanted to post some pictures and stories from that day!
First of all, the bachelorette party! We threw a typical bachelorette party for Kristi...got her all dressed up and made her walk around the city, played games, ate cake, etc. The funny part was that in China they do not have bachelorette parties so to see Kristi walking around (as pictured below) was quite the shock for people who were already shocked enough to see a bunch of foreigners out on a stroll... My friend, Cindy, had to make the comment that, "actually, I think Shannon is getting more attention than Kristi!" Oh, being the blondest blonde of the group is not always advantageous.

Before the ceremony, as with all weddings, there was much to be done! Doing those things in China, however, is not always the easiest. Take, for example, the afternoon that my friend, Natalie, and I spent almost 3 hours at a HUGE fabric market searching for matching ribbon to wrap the bouquets and tie the programs. I bet you've never spent 10 minutes bargaining for some red ribbon, have you!?! :)
I helped out the day before the wedding with the decorations and also made some adjustments a few hours before the wedding. We had candles everywhere and it was very pretty as the evening settled in. The wedding was held in a building that was described as a "glass jelly roll." Picture it...the description is dead-on! Here's the head table...

The Christian ceremony was held outdoors and even though it was quite polluted, it was still a warm day with no rain! (You'd never be able to guess that from the sky pictured below, huh?) Since it was a Chinese-American wedding they did the entire ceremony in English and then translated into Chinese (or vice-versa...) There were many American traditions, like Western food, bridesmaids/groomsmen, first dance, father/daughter dance, cake cutting and guest book but there were also Chinese traditions dispersed throughout the day which made it very special for everyone involved! For example, they had a Chinese "MC" whose purpose was to crack jokes and keep the mood light and they also did a traditional tea ceremony. In Chinese culture there is such a big emphasis placed on honoring the parents of the bride and groom. The purpose of the tea ceremony is for the parents to accept their child's spouse into their family and take them as their own child. So, at this part of the ceremony, Kristi offered tea to Zhou Jun's parents and they drank it then made some comments to Kristi and offered her a "hong bao" - a red envelope. (At Chinese weddings people do not usually bring gifts but instead they bring a hong bao with money inside for the newly married couple.) Then, Zhou Jun did the same, offering tea to Kristi's parents.


At the end of the evening Zhou Jun and Kristi changed into their traditional Chinese dress and went from table to table making toasts to everyone - this is also a Chinese wedding tradition.

It was so interesting to see how Kristi and Zhou Jun incorporated both of their cultures into the wedding ceremony - I think it's so cool to see that appreciation for each other's traditions! During their vows they had a line that went something like, "I promise to take your people as my own..." Wow! Congratulations Kristi and ZJ, I'm so happy for you!!